This week is looking hella (ok yeah I've lived in Cali for awhile now...lol) dramatic, like a showdown between good and evil, light and dark, escape and stagnation. Just remember that whatever blows up this week will provide the necessary fuel to get us unstuck. The north node is in Cancer currently, which means the universe is focused on forward movement only.
Speaking of forward movement, let's raise a hand if we know the difference between love and addiction. Here is a hint: space. Addiction offers zero space, but then when it's over it's OVER and we pray to never see it's face again. Love on the other hand, can be here today and a continent away tomorrow, but no matter how far it flies it's never not coming back. Now addiction can feel fun. It pretends to be really super duper fun. But deep down the reason addiction won't give us any room is because it knows if we had a moment off the merry-go-round we would throw up and go home. And stay home. Love on the other hand is stable, slow, steady and so fkn BORING, but it doesn't make us want to run away and throw up. Love makes us breathe deeply because our heart ISN'T racing. Sweaty palms and erratic pulse is a sign of ingesting poison, no? Love isn't supposed to feel like we might possibly die. Love is rest, not stress. Grandma's house. Sunday naps with the news in the background. Warm hands and even breaths. This week we are led to listen to our bodies. How do we feel with our “loved” ones? It's a retrograde so regardless of how we feel, we shouldn't make any sudden moves...but do take note. Review. Tests are coming soon. ~Oubria
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3/12/2020 02:05:50 pm
There is a big difference between love and addiction. Love is not harmful, while addiction is. For some people, as you have pointed out, love does seem boring because it is a steady feeling. But, the way I see it, love only becomes boring if you focus too much on what you will get in return for loving someone. When we love, we should eliminate the expectation that we will be loved back. The reality is that the ones we love will not always love us back. It is just the way life is, but if your love is unconditional, you will never feel the need to be loved back because you will receive the love that you so rightfully deserve. When you become obsessed in love or anything in general, then that becomes an addiction. It will eat you away until you are left with nothing. So, take it easy and know that too much is always dangerous.
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