Perhaps 2020 was full of fighting. I don't mean actual fisticuffs but maybe you spent so much trying to get other folks to see how they were wrong that it never occurred to you that you could be a little wrong too. Or maybe you spent a lot of time defending yourself because folks wanted to see you as wrong because they didn't want to see how they were in the wrong too. Or both. 2020 might have been one of those years where it was just really hard, & everybody was at home, it was a little too cramped up, & folks were butting heads because... what else is there to do?
Well... want what we can't have, of course. I want space, you want space, they want space, we need space!! Well, in 2021 y'all are gonna get what you asked for. A hidden hand hit the timeout button, & quiet corners have been granted to all. Finally, in 2021 you'll be happy to hear your own thoughts for a change, instead of having to clamor over the din. Silence at last. Peace.
Except, dammit you miss the noise! Now that you don't have it, you want it back! (Because you want what you can't have, of course) Sometimes we don't recognize our blessings until they're retreating; for some odd reason we recognize their back more than their front. As irritated as you will be by the realization, one day you'll also see this particular pain disappear & understand it too was a blessing. In 2021, try to see what's in front of your face while it's in front of your face. Like Albert Einstein said, "There are two ways of looking at life- one as if nothing is a miracle, & the other as if everything is a miracle.
(Bless this mess.)
want a 100 minute personal reading that really digs into 2021?