Whatever situations you dealt with in 2020 depended solely on you & the people you surrounded yourself with. You're coming out of a year when you kept company with the desirables, meaning you were with the person folks wanted, or you were the person folks wanted- either way there was a lot of focus on what you want to happen & how you can make it happen or how someone else can make it happen for you, blah, blah, blah. Perhaps you only valued folks based on how well they could eliminate obstacles & pave the way. (Read: What can you do for me??)
If 2020 was about your list of demands, 2021 is about listening to what others need for a change. Repeat after me- WHAT CAN I DO FOR YOU? Developing empathy won't happen overnight though. It will require you to actually experience some of the things you expected others to simply fix and/or dismiss. You will learn there are worse things than having to deal with problems (like dealing with them alone). In 2021, you'll see that living in reality is better than creating a fantasy because teamwork makes the dream work.
(Welcome to the real world.)
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